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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

13.06.2025 15:17

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Im still living with it.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

What are some things that normal people do that religious people call sins?

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

And i lived it daily.

Why after 50 years of being straight do I constantly desire to suck cock?

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

How often do you watch the news on TV?

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

Do married men know when their wives are having affairs?

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

I don,t even have a pension.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

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One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

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We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

I know ,a lot about trauma.

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Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

Why are so many people anti-Trump? People didn't like Obama either, but he was the president, so people didn't do this. What makes Trump different?

She married twice! .

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

Why did my ex move on so fast, we have only been broken up for 2 weeks?

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

We all went to grammer schools

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

How do people move on so quickly? I’m still sprung over someone I was dating and he found someone else so fast. I feel hurt because I’m still head over heels over him while he’s out enjoying his life with someone new

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

Ive learnt so much.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

As i do to all so called friends.?

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

I could never make a relationship work though!

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

I was 9 years of age.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

I was scared of men, in general

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

What did i know ?

Who then, do I blame.?

My family never makes their pension either.

I said to her

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

I will be 64.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

He knew the spot.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

I was very sick at this time too.

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

Was to survive, this bastard.

One cannot live in the past .

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

She loved him until the end.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

All the time i was locked up.

We were not on the streets..

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

I waited trembling.

(And it was in our own minds.)

My mum and dad in the seventies!

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

Put me off passion for life!!

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

So, i spoilt her more .

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

I was seconnd youngest,

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

It was going to be , some day.

He resisted the act ,that day.

Especially a lifetime of it.

But it wasn’t much.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

I have no regrets .

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

I had hoped to write a book about this .

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

My life is so biszare .

And who doesn’t know suffering?

I write beautiful poetry .

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

Would this be the day?

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

Why did i forgive my father ?

She found it foreign!.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

Comes on , in middle age.

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

Im dying but, im not bitter.

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

I never cut or harmed myself..

She wouldn,t have been !

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

But ive been too sick for many years..

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

This is soul school!.

I couldn’t, believe it.

When she asked me how she looked .

She was in good health!

They are buried together, in the same grave..

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

I think the readers, may guess!

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

But, we were locked up after school.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

So whats the point in blame.

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!